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soo. date last night=did not happen. i called her, she never called… - don't let the bastards grind you down.

date last night=did not happen. i called her, she never called back. feh. i hate that shit...don't be all enthusiastic about it one night and then disappear. but i don't know the story, so she definitely has the benefit of the doubt, but it's disappointing.

chris rock tonight=i'm not all that excited. i'd rather have seen lewis black, dave attell and MITCH HEDBERG (woo!) a few weeks ago, but i wasn't able to pull it off.

show on thursday=pretty neat. three of the bands are from hammonton, and the other one is from tampa. they're actually kinda big, and we (as in my brother and sister) know the bassist.

so, an update. single as hell, per the usual. asked a few girls out lately, nothign came of it, though. one even seemed pretty promising, but kept cancelling plans, so i grew ambivalent towards her, and that caused her to stop taking my calls. heh.

on the job front, i have two leads that will take until february or march to develop. one has a nice sized increase in salary, but a move that i'm ... excited yet concerned about. it will be near cities i love, but no family. yikes. the other is a move to tampa, an okay sized increase in salary, but a chance to eventually have a goodly sized chunk of direct reports under me...not to mention maybe getting out a few times at night, you know?

but i like where i'm at, for everything except building a life. i've got a decent job with decent people, evie goes to a decent day care and there's a decent private school right next to it. everything's very 'blah', though, and it's lonesome. there's nowhere to hang out, really, except for a few bars (there are a lot of bars, but only a few worth going to) and none of them are close. i mean, i know there are lawyers and engineers and doctors, etc., that i could be dating, but i can't find them. :) they tend to come to englewood already attached (cause, as i've been saying, being single here BLOWS).

so i guess that sums up everything since my georgia adventure a month ago. i talk to caitlin every day, and it's good to have the infatuation subsiding. i still like her as much as ever, but i'm pretty sure it's what it feels like to have a female friend...but i've never really known that (except for my friend's girlfriends, where the infatuation never really develops). and we hung out two nights ago and we're hanging out tonight. her friends eddie and lauren are coming...lauren's single....so we'll see if i can mack it.
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christy_p From: christy_p Date: December 6th, 2003 03:39 pm (UTC) (Link)
job leads causing moves, but you didn't say where the first one was..........and i'm nosy as hell and wanna know. do tell.
taumeson From: taumeson Date: December 6th, 2003 05:01 pm (UTC) (Link)
greenville. it's just a lead, we'll see if steve thinks it's a good place to be. i don't need the money, so i'm only gonna take it seriously if its nice and worth it.
christy_p From: christy_p Date: December 7th, 2003 10:53 am (UTC) (Link)
it pays well and the cost of living is low...true that you wouldn't have family close by, but you'd have friends.
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