i've been to buffets with a chart and without. at both, we really only knew one of the people getting married. i much prefered to be told where to sit. choosing ourself made it kind of awkward. everyone's saving seats for their friends - "seat's taken." and then a bunch of straglers got paired together and we were all like "yea, we don't know anyone either." it ended ok but the process of finding a seat just made it uncomfortable for us. so if you are thinking of the people who might be uncomfortable in the first place, arrange the seats. if it's small and everyone knows everyone else, free for all would probably work. i hate going to weddings.
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